SINGLE PEOPLE AND SWINGING

As a general rule swinging is for couples, however, there are times when a couple might enjoy the company of a single person. Many things can sway that decision, but the most common are wishing to please and excite a partner and often Bi-sexuality.

For a single person, joining a couple may feel strange, but with most swingers, you will soon find yourself at ease and could end up as a regular "third party". Let's face it, threesomes are fun and often more intimate than foursomes or group sex. In fact, you could end up having some of the best sex ever, if you find the right couple!

Having a threesome can be an extremely, sexually arousing experience! Joining a Couple in bed and them allowing you to explore things with them, or together while you watch and engage as well – it can be one of the most sexually freeing experiences of your life. It is like having a live porno film playing in which you are the star and you can interact at any time. Most people who have had threesomes – including myself – have said that it is probably the most sexually charged they have ever felt.

ISSUES TO CONSIDER FIRST

Morality aside, the biggest problem with inviting a third person into the bedroom with you is the jealousy that can sometimes develop. It does not matter how much the couple have talked about it or how comfortable you feel with the decision to do it, it can still occur.

Before any threesome is ever entered into it is essential to have established ground rules. The couple should talk alone about what they are comfortable doing. Perhaps having sex with the new person is OK, but anal sex is not. Or, you would not like sex, but oral sex is OK. There has to be a set of rules associated with the play so that all people feel like there is a controlled environment full of mutual respect.

Bi-sexual Swingers

If you are bisexual, plus open minded, then joining a bisexual couple can be a real thrill and offers the best of both worlds. Bisexual females are quite common in swinging couples and for single women, this can offer the chance for exploring yourself, without the need to commit to anything, or anybody. Sometimes women crave the soft, sensual, sexual touch of another woman – but they are afraid of being labeled a “lesbian” – a FFM threesome will give them the opportunity to explore these feelings, without the stigma of a full-on lesbian encounter. 

Although Bi sexual men are less common in swingers, there are still a few and again, this offers guys the chance to explore this side of themselves discreetly. Even when the couple does not have a bisexual male, it is sometimes the case that a guy will enjoy watching his wife "get laid" by another guy.

Exciting Sex.

No matter what your reason for having a threesome, it's going to be exciting, there are so many more possibilities with three people than two. The couple you are joining will naturally be more excited too, although expect a good "dose" of nerves all round. All but the "most hardened swingers" will be nervous with someone new, if it's a "one off", just go with the flow.

However, like all sex, to make it really good, it needs practice, especially when it is a new situation and new people to get used to. If you want really exciting threesomes, then choose a couple you can meet regularly, that way you will all relax and learn what everyone likes. Things will flow more naturally and you will end up with some explosive sex.